As one of the most often-quoted dating experts in the country for the last ten years, David Wygant has been prominently featured and consulted by thousands of media outlets. Entertainment Television, Fox News, Dateline NBC, CBS News, ABC News and MTV. David has been featured and quoted in over 100 magazine and newspaper articles including in Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, The New York Times, The Chicago Tribune, USA Today, and The Los Angeles Times. Personals, and is one of the only dating coaches who works with both men and women.
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If you’re a shitty lover and you’re in your 40s, well, she’s already had shitty lovers because she is used to dating younger guys.
I tell every guy I work with to go take tantric sex classes, and really learn how to please a woman.
Secondly, teasing a young woman, which older guys don’t do, is a must.
A lot of younger guys go out with a younger woman, and try to sleep with them on the first date. Don’t touch her for the first few dates, because then she’s going to want to have sex with you.
I always tell guys to play it cool and act like you got laid the night before, and look at her at the end of the date and say, “Alright, see you later. She’s going to wonder why the hell you haven’t touched her.
She is going to think you don’t desire her, and then basically throw herself on you.I’m talking about understanding how younger women are wired, but also playing the part.You’ve got to understand what a young man is like, and act the exact opposite.In terms of your age and wisdom, don’t try to teach them lessons. Don’t talk down to them; don’t try to give them advice. You’ve got to become that cool, hip, older guy that will attract women. Once again, you’ve got to speak with them and speak their language. Meaning, when you go out with them, don’t just take them out to dinner—anyone can do that. One of my favorite things to do with women is to take them to Target (the big discount department stores).Encourage them, and share your wisdom and knowledge, because you have to become Michael Douglas. Be open to what they want to do, but take them on an adventure that the young guys can’t pull off. When we’re about to go get a drink, I tell them that first, I need to run a quick errand at Target.When we get there, I give her 13 dimes and nine pennies.