The Issue of Spending Money Those of you who have read my stuff for a long time know that my goal is to get to sex via online dating sites as fast as humanly possible while spending the minimum amount of money, and use this as a source to generate long-term non-monogamous relationships. Does SDD game violate that “minimum amount of money” condition? As I will discuss in a minute, even if you don’t actually pay these women money to have sex with you, your first dates (and second dates, if you have them) are going to cost way, more than the typical Blackdragon first/second date. He’s not going to have sex with her no matter how much money he throws at her. Ugly, dumpy, uncalibrated, needy, high-income betas constantly hit on the the women there and throw out huge and insane offers (“I’ll give you ,000 a month!!! So yes, some baseline level of game required to make sugar daddy game work. This is particularly if you do end up paying the girl, either in cash or a fancy date.
Read those articles if you want more detail on this important topic. The next issue, which I have seen hotly debated on various pickup forums for several years now, is the contention that the sugar daddy game “doesn’t count”. It “doesn’t require any self-improvement” or “moving out of your comfort zone”. On the other side, pro-sugar daddy dudes say yes, indeed it is a game just like any other type of game, and there is a skill and art that’s needed in order to be successful. Just like with Democrats and Republicans, the answer is somewhere in the middle. I can do all kinds of things wrong and still get laid.
Yes, there’s a level of game and appearance I must maintain, but it’s WAY easier than normal online game, assuming I have no problem jacking up the amount of money I’m willing to spend on women or dates.
That’s exactly why sugar daddy game has become so popular: it’s easier for normal, non-player men to do. (This recent hubub about Ashley Madison is stupid; that’s not where all the married men are having affairs.
I’ve been avoiding talking about this topic for over two years now, but it has reached a point where sugar daddy dating sites (SDD) are indeed now a significant part of the online dating landscape.
For the time being, these sites are here to stay, and will have an effect (positive or negative) on all dating (online or otherwise) for the next several years at least.
In a moment, I’ll get to my opinions on this, as well as my experiences running a few experiments on these sites, and whether or not these sites can plug into an Alpha Male 2.0 lifestyle. Sugar Daddy Dating Site Game and Online Game Are Similar, But Not The Same SDD online game.
Many, if not most of the concepts and techniques, are the same.
At the same time, there are some very strong differences.
If you go to a site like Seeking Arrangement using the exact same profile and messaging techniques as you used on OKCupid with no changes whatsoever, you’re going to get nowhere fast, and waste a hell of a lot of time.