Once you’ve gotten a girl to meet you, run the recipe. Lifting, dressing well, and taking care of yourself will make you appear to be more genetically ‘fit’ than you actually are. Take a break from calling him gay and get him to take some quality pictures that highlight your best features.
3) The worst case scenario is that a girl walks out on you when she realizes you lied, in which case, you’re still not having any less sex with her than you would have otherwise. If the women of POF have taught us anything, it’s that the body type category is meant to be aspirational rather than descriptive. I have a fairly high-status job title and position, but my success increased significantly when I replaced it with a simple . I am the man every girl is looking for: I am the Dashing Alpha Playboy finally on the verge of settling down.
If this sort of blatant deception makes you feel guilty, you’re reading the wrong blog. Friends of mine with various other solid professions have reported the same experience. I don’t wear this on my sleeve—it’s very, very subtle.
I refuse to be morally high-roaded about this in an online dating culture where women clearly believe that: Remember, men, there is no Geneva convention in online dating. The ideal POF profession is to throw out some vague, ambiguous, undefined, semi-playful bullshit, but combine it with other obvious markers of status. Be reticent and embarrassed when she presses for details, and turn the conversation to more playful topics. It’s an imperceptible boredom with the dating scene. The faintest, most remote whispering of a hope that maybe, maybe, maybe, this girl sitting across from me is the one who will inspire me to give up the game.
You can lie about your profession, your relationship history, what you’re looking for. Here is my suggested concordance between actual height and POF stated height: 6’7 - 5’7 And feel free to go ahead and experiment with even more extreme lies and report back with your results.
My buddy who is 5’8 lists himself as 5’11 and has not been called out once.
This works because: 1) Girls can’t recognize height, especially short girls.
2) A woman forgives you all, in her loins’ tingly thrall. You should be athletic anyways, because you , but do it no matter what you look like.
Plenty of Fish is the most popular dating site in the world.
It is free, it is easy to use, and it is filled with girls who lack the funds, the seriousness, or the intelligence to realize that every other dating site this side of Adult Friend Finder offers them better prospects for a guy who wants a long-term relationship. The girls are pre-selected for some combination of stupidity, desperation and sluttiness.